"...Sex..."?

In my AP Psych class I have been constantly interested in almost everything that is being said and taught. This is the first time that I have actually taken the time to read the textbook rather than just looking for important vocabulary. The only problem is, is that questions are constantly being poured into my train of thought that I want answered. Some of them are recurring questions and others are ones that arise from an interesting topic. Keep in mind that I find everything I hear in that class interesting, so, that's a lot of questions. The question recently on my mind, which is what I want to talk about here, is, how did not speaking our minds come about?

Granted, this is a very simple question with a very simple answer. People get offended, so people don't say whatever they want. Answered. I wish I didn't care so much about what other people thought of me. I can't even tell people I really don't like to just shut their whore mouths because no one wants to hear anything they will ever have to say, ever. My (oh so witty) insults are lessened to mere mumbling under my breath. I can't even say my complements out loud. I mean what girl wouldn't want to hear me say, while I'm walking behind them, "I would really like to date and get to know you"*. Though considering my current condition I would, in actuality, really like to date and get to know you, but the true meaning of that sentence also stands.

Complete and total honesty for one whole day would be the ultimate challenge. Just think of the things you would ask your closest friends. There would be a lot of outwardly pissed off inwardly happy as shit girls, if ya know what I mean... Some of the questions that come to mind are "
What do you really think of me" and "Would you want have sex with me?" Because, I mean, who wouldn't want to know which of their friends would or wouldn't want have sex with you. Sure ignorance is bliss for a reason, but I think I would rather have my curiosity satisfied.

*That whole sentence is a euphemism for something very obviously sexual.